Al Ver Necesidad: Incorporando a las Jovenes Embarazadas en Familia

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desarrollando la tema de adolescentes embarazadas 
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Por la noche puedo escuchar los sonidos de bebés: balbuceando, tosiendo, riendo o llorando. Escucho a sus madres susurrando dulcemente, “Te amo. Te quiero.” Y son comunes los sonidos de biberones, eructos y canciones de cuna.

Las madres con quienes estoy compartiendo mi habitación son similares a las de mi país. Se despiertan temprano, bañan a sus bebés, trapean el piso, cocinan la merienda, lavan la ropa, y tienen fiestas de cumpleaños.

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Estas madres también son estudiantes y al mismo tiempo que cumplen con las responsabilidades propias de su maternidad: deben hacen tareas escolares, compartir quehaceres domésticos, y ocasionalmente compartir reuniones con sus familias.

Cabe recordar que las edades de estas madres no sobrepasan los veinte años.

Con la tasa de jóvenes embarazadas más alta en América de sur, el problema de la salud con respecto a la educación reproductiva y sexual está creciendo significativamente en Ecuador.

“Casa Elizabeth” es una casa para jóvenes embarazadas y para sus bebés. Está ubicada al norte de Quito, la capital de Ecuador, una ciudad bonita y rodeada por montañas.

Las personas que visitan “Casa Elizabeth” se impactan con el color rosa pastel de la pared, la música de una radio que permanece encendida y cuyos ritmos se confunden con el llanto de los bebés y con el ruido estrepitoso que hacen los niños al correr por la casa.

En “Casa Elizabeth” viven cinco chicas. Esta casa, actualmente está dirigida por la “Familia de la casa:” compuesta por un matrimonio Cristiano y sus dos niños; de cinco y un año respectivamente.

En total son cinco chicas jóvenes, dos recién nacidos, dos bebés un poco más grandes, una nena pequeña, y un niño muy activo de cinco años. A este grupo se ha integrado una estudiante con serias aspiraciones de ser periodista, realmente todo esto representa una combinación de “ Mi Boda Griega Grande” y “19 Niños y Subiendo.”

En medio de este torbellino, se puede percibir un gran sentido de familia entre todas las chicas que habitan en esta casa.

“Nuestro enfoque es amar y cuidar a las chicas para que ellas tengan un encuentro con Jesus,” dijo Elisa Brown, Directora del Comité “Casa Elizabeth.”

“Las personas siempre quieren brindar cariño y amor a los bebés, pero no sucede lo mismo con las jóvenes que han incurrido en errores, esta es una dificultad y quisiéramos cambiar la situación, dando la posibilidad de que estas chicas se incorporen a una familia.”

La tasa de fertilidad es drásticamente más alta entre las personas de escasos recursos que entre las personas adineradas, la relación es de 4 a 1 respectivamente.

Con la tasa de jóvenes embarazadas más alta en América de sur, el problema de la salud con respecto a la educación reproductiva y sexual está creciendo significativamente en Ecuador.

El Reporte Nacional del año 2013 mostró que hay 81 nacimientos por cada 1,000 chicas, cuyas edades fluctúan entre los 15 y 18 años. Estos nacimientos muchas veces son el resultado de una insuficiente educación sexual y reproductiva, el producto de un abuso, o el resultado de estereotipos culturales que generalmente atribuyen las culpas a la madre y justifican las fallas del padre.

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1 en 5 mujeres en Ecuador tiene su primer hijo antes de tener 18 años.

Un reporte del año 2007 de la UNICEF puso en evidencia los porcentajes de jóvenes embarazadas especialmente en América del sur y el Caribe, lugares en donde estos índices se están incrementando de manera vertiginosa. Ecuador tiene un registro muy alto de mujeres embarazadas, cuyas edades son inferiores a los 19 años y es preocupante la rapidez con que este problema se está propagando. Un estudio realizado en el año 2004 por parte del Centro Ecuatoriano para la Prevención y Control de las Enfermedades, mediante una encuesta de la Salud Reproductiva Internacional, mostró que en Ecuador por lo menos una de cada cinco mujeres tiene su primer hijo antes de cumplir 18 años.

Es una pandemia que impacta a las clases socioeconómicas con mayor nivel de pobreza en el país. El embarazo precoz está relacionado con la carencia, la vulnerabilidad, la prematura deserción escolar, y la desventaja económica.

El mismo reporte de la UNICEF mostró que la tasa de fertilidad es drásticamente más alta entre las personas de escasos recursos que entre las personas adineradas, la relación es de 4 a 1 respectivamente. Reportes actualizados muestran que esta inequidad se ha agudizado en los últimos quince años.

Al ser conscientes de las estadísticas, cuyos resultados son alarmantes, Inca Link inició un proyecto orientado a paliar esta situación.

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“Sentimos desde inicio un llamado para ayudar a las jovenes embarazadas. Creo que el sistema medico abusa de esta situación porque ellas desconocen su propio cuerpo,” dijo Brown. “Al principio, yo iba a hospital para quedarme con ellas [porque estuve tan apasionada por ayudarles].”

Ahora, “Casa Elizabeth” se enfoca en una ayuda absoluta, es decir se preocupa de la salud física, mental, económica, académica y espiritual de las jóvenes que acoge y a la vez de sus niños. “Casa Elizabeth” orienta su trabajo a la solución de este problema social.

“No somos una institución en donde se entra y se sale; formamos una familia,” dijo Brown.

Las siguientes historias son las de esta familia: las de las cinco chicas quién viven en esta casa. Sus historias representan a las historias de muchas jóvenes en Ecuador — chicas que se encuentran como madres en medio de las desventajas social, cultural y económicas.

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In the Face of Need: Introducing Girls to Families

This article is a part of a larger series on teen mothers in Ecuador.
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At night I sit in bed listening to the sounds of babies gurgling, coughing, laughing, and crying; to mothers whispering, “Te amo. Te quiero;” to bottles and burping and lullabies.

The mothers I share a room with are like any living in the U.S. They wake up early, give their babies baths, mop the floor, cook dinner, do laundry, and have birthday parties.

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But these mothers also go to school. They have homework. They share chores and only occasionally see their families.

And, these mothers are less than 20 years old.

With the highest teen pregnancy rate in South America, the issue of reproductive and sexual health has become increasingly important in Ecuador.

Casa Elizabeth, a home for pregnant teens and their babies, sits in the north of Quito, the beautiful, mountain clad capital of Ecuador. Visitors walk in the door and are instantly assaulted by bubblegum and hot pink walls, the radio singing Jesus Adrian Romero, and babies crying or toddlers running.

Five girls and four babies currently reside at Casa Elizabeth, along with the “house family:” parents, a five year old, and a one year old.

That makes five teenagers, two newborns, two babies, a toddler, and a five year old. Add one aspiring journalist and you have the perfect picture of My Big Fat Greek Wedding meets 19 Kids and Counting.

In the midst of the chaos, there is a real sense of family among the girls in the home. “Our focus is on making sure those girls are loved, cared for, and have an encounter with Jesus,” said Elisa Brown, Casa Elizabeth Founder and Board Chair.

“Everyone loves on babies, but loving on teen girls who have made mistakes is hard. We wanted to introduce these girls to families.”

Girls from the poorest fifth of the [Ecuadorian] population are four times more likely to become pregnant than those in the richest fifth.

With the highest teen pregnancy rate in South America, the issue of reproductive and sexual health has become increasingly important in Ecuador. The 2013 National Reports state that there are 81 births per 1,000 girls ages 15 to 18, often resulting from a lack of sexual and reproductive education, abuse, or cultural stereotypes that often place blame on the mother instead of the father.

1 in 5 women in Ecuador have their first child before the age of 18.

1 in 5 women in Ecuador have their first child before the age of 18.

A 2007 study by UNICEF showed that teen pregnancy rates across the South American and Caribbean region are increasing rapidly; Ecuador has the highest increasing rate of those under the age of 19. A study by the Ecuadorian Center for Disease Control Prevention and the International Reproductive Health Surveys in 2004 showed that at least one in every five women in Ecuador have their first child before the age of 18.

It’s a pandemic that hits the poor of the country hardest and has been linked to increased poverty, vulnerability, early school dropouts, and economic disadvantages.

The same UNICEF study showed the fertility rate is drastically higher among the poor as compared to the rich, “Girls from the poorest fifth of the population are four times more likely to become pregnant than those in the richest fifth, and recent research shows this inequality has become more accentuated in the last fifteen years.”

After becoming aware of these startling statistics, Inca Link began looking for a way to help in the face of this increasing need.

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“We felt early on a call to pregnant teens. I think the medical system abuses them, and they have so little information about their bodies,” said Brown. “At first, I’d just go and be with them in the hospital because I was so passionate [to help them].”

Now, Casa Elizabeth tries to help the whole person, focusing not only on physical health, but also on the mental, economic, educational, and spiritual, trying on a small scale to address a much larger issue.

“We’re not an institution they go in and out of; we’re a family they become a part of,” said Brown.

The following stories are those of this family: five girls who live in this home. Their stories represent the stories of many young women in Ecuador — girls who find themselves mothers in the midst of social, cultural and economic disadvantages.

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Yamileth: Ecuador’s culture of absent fathers

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A petite 15-year-old girl sat on the floor in a blue flannel pajama set, swaddling her eight-month-old son until he looked like a cubby burrito with a sleepy smile.

Two other newborns were almost asleep in their mothers’ arms, waiting on Yamileth to finish with Daniel, so that she could swaddle their babies as well. She had lived at Casa Elizabeth almost a year, the longest of the girls, and had taken on a teaching role with some of the newer mothers.

Yamileth is a beautiful girl, not yet grown into a woman’s figure. When I met her, Casa Elizabeth was the latest in a line of places Yamileth had called home in the mountain capital of Quito, Ecuador. Like many teen moms, Yamileth grew up in a single-mother household, with her mother and two sisters — both of who had children before they were 18.

“My mom is a maid,” Yamileth said. “From that time [when my dad left] I have lived with my mom and she has worked to get us ahead in life.”

Yamileth’s story is just one example of a larger social trend in Ecuador: a growing culture of absent fathers among impoverished communities, according to the Ecuador National Demographics Survey of Mother and Child Health.

Other researchers also are pointing to the relationship between absent fathers in these Ecuadorian communities and teen pregnancy. Goicolea is one of the foremost researchers on the topic in Ecuador. She found that an absent father not only correlates with an increased chance for a pregnant daughter, but with an increased chance of her continuing in poverty.

Yamileth’s story is just one example of a larger social trend in Ecuador: a growing culture of absent fathers among impoverished communities.

When Yamileth was fourteen, she moved in with her boyfriend. “We had a lot of problems,” Yamileth remembered. “He hit me and did drugs and drank.”

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Daniel was eight months old when this photo was taken. He is now almost a year and a half.

Shortly after she found out she was pregnant, she saw something she should not have seen. “He went to jail because he murdered someone. My mom was afraid… that he would do something to me.”

With no money and few options, Yamileth agreed to move into Casa Elizabeth at five-months pregnant. A few months later she had her fifteenth birthday, and, a few more after that, Daniel was born. Yamileth continued living in Casa Elizabeth for about six months until social services decided life with her mom was stable.

“Maternity marks the end of adolescence, and these girls are faced with tremendous responsibilities,” Schutt-Aine and Maddaleno wrote in Sexual Health and Development of Adolescents and Youth in the Americas.

Yamileth is a single mom in a house full of single moms.

They are responsibilities Yamileth may not be ready to take on at such a young age. Like her mother, Yamileth is a single mom in a house full of single moms. She has three years left of high school and, when I interviewed her, she said she planned to sell candy in between classes to supplement her mother’s income.

IMG_1408Her dreams after high school are clear in her mind: she wants to continue school and become a mechanical or electrical engineer. She is smart and energetic, and Yamileth knows education is the key. Yet whether she fulfills those dreams will largely depend on her ability to find a job that can support both her and Daniel while she continues at university.

But for now, Yamileth is optimistic. She says she wants to fulfill her dreams so she can share them with son, Daniel.

“When he grows up, I want him to enter school and study to be a good student. I want him to enter high school or keep going to the university,” Yamileth said.

“And to have all the things that I didn’t have.”

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Sofia and Carla: The need for education

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After a long night of frequently-waking sick babies, I hear the bed beneath my bunk squeak as Carla wakes at 7 a.m. She begins dressing her son, Tomas, while Sofia is in the other corner sweeping the floor and talking to her daughter, Natalia.

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My two roommates last summer had been roommates since they gave birth within a week of each other. The girls could not be more different. Sofia is a bubbly, affectionate girl of 19. Her gullibility is continually a source of laughter at Casa Elizabeth.

Carla is quieter. She loves to read but struggles to connect with the other girls in the home. But she is ambitious and daily, while others are watching TV, doing chores or talking, Carla can be found at the kitchen table making up the homework she misses because she can’t attend classes.

“My mom or my dad never [went to school], and because of that I saw the poverty in my mom,” said Carla. “I want to study. I want to continue life.”

“I want to study.” A phrase I heard over and over as I interviewed girls 15 to 18 years old, facing an unknown future with no one but their first child. All, without exception, knew that an education is the key to a job and economic stability for their families.

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“The girls [teen moms in Ecuador] clearly identified education as an opportunity to gain economic autonomy,” wrote Isabel Goicolea, the foremost researcher on teen pregnancy in Ecuador in a 2010 study. She proposed that gender equality in the country, specifically in regard to teen pregnancy, would only happen through education.

But that economic autonomy is out of reach for most teen moms in South America, because an almost eternal cycle of education deficiencies exist in their families, like that of Carla. She was bounced from family member to family member for most of her life, but was determined to not only finish high school but to go on to university.

Sofia, Carla’s roommate while at Casa Elizabeth, did not have the same options. “From the time I was eight-years-old I had to leave to work,” Sofia said. “I was a maid. I have a photo with my first patrons and I was so small.”

In Ecuador, it is common to send children to work as live in maids with wealthier families, known as patrons. The schooling of such children largely depends on the generosity of the patrons. Some allowed Sofia to go to school; some didn’t.

Once they are pregnant, the chance of a teen girl who comes from poverty finishing high school or going onto higher education — already slim — becomes almost nonexistent.

Sofia is a very smart girl, cheerful and eager to learn. But today at 19-years-old, Sofia struggles to read and does have not much more than a mid-elementary education. It could take her eight years to earn her high school diploma. With a daughter, and no family willing to take her in, she will probably never finish.

Because Sofia has worked as a maid for so long, she has the skill set to provide for herself and her daughter; she perhaps doesn’t need her high school education. But many other girls in Ecuador are not as lucky.

The United Nations in 2011 statement said education in Ecuador is the permanent solution for communities in risk, because it lets the adolescent girls be free from abuse of the past.

And the solution to teen pregnancy is not just academic or occupational education, but also reproductive and sexual. “There is a lack of education these girls have about themselves and their bodies,” said Eliza Brown, Director of Casa Elizabeth.

That lack of education is the “principle responsibility for the prevention of adolescent pregnancy in adolescent girls,” Giocolea wrote.

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It is a two-fold problem: girls in impoverished communities lack education about their bodies, abuse and contraceptives, resulting in pregnancy. Once they are pregnant, the chance of a teen girl who comes from poverty finishing high school or going onto higher education — already slim — becomes almost nonexistent. And then the cycle repeats itself with her children.

Which leaves Carla and Sofia with few options. Carla says she will find a job, rent an apartment, and, “If God lets me, I would study in the university,” while Sofia simply dreams of a place to work and a “room for two.”

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Julieth: A story of hope

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It is easy to get caught up in the statistics of the thing.

july1 in 5 girls in Ecuador have their first child before the age of 18.

Girls living below the poverty line are 4 times more likely to get pregnant.

Some statistics have even stated that as many as 62.7% of pregnancies in the Amazon jungle are unwanted or unplanned.

Like I said, easy to get caught up in the statistics. But perhaps what I learned, more than anything else living with five teen mothers in the Ecuador, is that hope is found in the individual story. It’s in what we do for the person directly in front of us.

Julieth, also known as July, was 11 when her mom died of cancer. She’s an outgoing, passionate girl, who laughs and loves easily. She was the “mother” in a home of mothers, helping the younger girls adapt to taking care of babies who were sick, didn’t want to eat, cried easily or couldn’t sleep. My first night at Casa Elizabeth, she saw through my fear and culture shock, told me to sit down and watch a movie with her.

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But she was not always so comfortable in that role. July lived with her stepfather, an aunt, then a friend of her mother’s before getting pregnant at 15. “Before, I went out with boys without thinking,” July said. “I drank a lot. I was always partying.”

It is easy… to become overwhelmed by the mixture of social disadvantages, bad choices and pure evil that contribute to the situations teen moms find themselves in.

It wasn’t until she had a medical scare that the lifestyle halted. “I felt a bulge in my stomach and my entire family was scared [because they remembered my mom],” July said. “But I went to the doctor, had a test and he said you’re pregnant.”

July’s story is unique because she came to Casa Elizabeth after she had Felipe, who was then four-months-old. Social workers said she could no longer stay where she was, and Casa Elizabeth made an exception, because “Julieth had nowhere to go,” July recalled.

She did not want to be there. She said she had a bad attitude, didn’t want to share her space and it was “very, very difficult.” But the house parents showed her how a family could be different.

“When I came, I saw their lives, how they acted,” July said, remembering that she found their kindness weird. “But now God has done many good things in my life. They make you apart of their family.”

DSC_0171Casa Elizabeth is a home that doesn’t just help the girls with the physical and economic needs of having a child. They also help them continue school and emphasize living a healthy lifestyle physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. But everything Casa Elizabeth does is centered in the family, something July decided to take with her when she left. “I’m nervous,” July told me days before her wedding last June. “Because for the first time I am forming my own family.”

July is also unique because she married her boyfriend, and the father of Felipe, Gorge. A beautiful wedding, perhaps because it showed that we don’t have to fear the insurmountable.

It is easy when listening to the tragic stories of five teen moms in the mountain capital of Ecuador to become overwhelmed by the mixture of social disadvantages, bad choices and pure evil that contribute to the situations teen moms find themselves in.

You only have to listen to Lucia’s mom tell her she must marry the 57-year-old man who sexually abused her for months. Or to the fear that Yamileth’s boyfriend might come back, and hurt her or her son. Or as Sofia, a 19-year-old girl, struggles to read at the kitchen table.

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These are a few of the people I met this summer: moms, babies, volunteers. They inspire me in the face of the incredible pandemic of teen pregnancy in Ecuador.

But then I remember laughing at dinner over some mistake I made in Spanish. I remember Dani, Yamileth’s son, making faces at me across the room, late night facial nights and dance parties. I remember the pure joy that anyone can find anywhere love and acceptance is.

It is easy to get caught up in the statistics of teen pregnancy. But the hope I see is not in large-scale public policy or international efforts, although those do help.

I see hope in a school psychologist who noticed something was wrong and called in social services. I see it in the house mom who spent hours on a Wednesday afternoon picking lice out of a girl’s hair. Or the counselor who volunteers on Tuesday mornings to just listen. It’s in the mission team who comes to build beds large enough to sleep a mom and her child. It’s in the family who donates baby clothes or weekly buys diapers.

I see it in the individual who dedicates his or herself to helping the person right in front of them, without judgment and full of love — and I realize that anywhere there is an overwhelming problem, God also provides unexpected hope.

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Wherever the Story Takes Me: My Journey as a Journalism Student

I’ve been a closet nerd most of my life. I say closet because I’ve always been the personable, class events, party-throwing friend. But I was also the friend who informed anyone who would listen what was going on in Syria. I was the one who followed politics, economics, and social issues, trying to figure out the why behind the what. So when it came to choosing a major, the answer was easy: journalism.

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Enter freshman me, all bright-eyed and bushy-tailed, ready to take on a world of current events, social injustices, and scandal. All in a blazer and pair of fabulous heels.

Just a year and a half later, I was ready to give up. I was overwhelmed, burnt out, and not even sure I liked journalism anymore—let alone ready to dedicate my life to it. When someone said the word journalism I felt stress, boredom, and an overall feeling of dread.

Thankfully, the young rise again and love gets a second chance.

It started with my summer internship in Dallas during summer 2013, where I worked for WFAA Channel 8. I didn’t want to go. Like I said, I didn’t know if I liked journalism, and I definitely didn’t like TV news. I’ll be honest; for some reason I had a bias that TV journalism pandered and was somehow a lesser medium. I basically went because I had to do something to fill my graduation requirements.

Then I discovered the power and fun in telling a story visually. I watched these reporters who had been working in the field thirty plus years, day in and day out, find stories people cared about, ask hard questions, and do it all with excellence. I learned that each medium has its own point of view to share. However, I knew that while I enjoyed video, broadcast journalism probably wasn’t for me.

Fast forward to Spring 2014, to little ol’ me sitting in Multimedia Storytelling. I had no idea what I was walking into—a class that would stress me out, challenge me, excite me, and reignite a passion for a field that’s always been a first love.

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I’d spent this entire year wondering where I fit in journalism. Thankfully for me, the answer fell in my lap: online multimedia.

In my skewed view, I had felt limited by the different media, seeing them as competitive instead of collaborative. In this class, I discovered that in multimedia journalism there is incredible potential to tell stories and make people care. By combining text, video, infographics, links, audio, photography, etc., I can show people more fully why I get so excited about news.

And the best part? I don’t have to do it alone.

One of the biggest take aways from this class is that news at its most excellent is covered in a team. I collaborated with other students—students who were often better at writing, taking video, making infographics, or researching than me—while still keeping my personal creativity and voice. I learned from others while contributing my strengths. And the results were something I think we can all be proud of.

So the end to my story? I for one have re-fallen in love with the field of journalism.

Now when I hear the word journalism, I get excited. I once again devour current events hoping one day to cover them myself. I see local stories as a way to impact someone’s life. I am filled with passion when I face the challenge of explaining a complicated story simply and engagingly. And now, I have so many more tools to do it.

From closet nerd to hard-nosed journalist, now more than ever, I’m ready to take on the world in whatever platform or medium the story takes me.